Individually, they feel empowered and have more confidence and self-esteem than ever before. They are no longer afraid to speak up in a meeting. They are no longer dependent on their husband’s unsteady work flow. They can contribute and provide stability to the home like never before.
To be clear, enterprise, promotion, titles, possessions, and bigger houses are not driving them. They don’t see themselves as founders and CEOs of their own business—a foreign concept they don’t understand or really care for. They are simply working hard so they can send their children to better schools and college, making sure they have the uniforms and the school supplies they need. They are working hard to purchase medicine when their children get sick. And, of course, having the means to purchase gifts during the Hindu festivals.
Seeing their children happy is their happiness. There is nothing more powerful than that of a mother wanting to improve their child’s future and the power of women coming together to do the same reaches far beyond what my small mind can imagine.
Yes, empowerment is important for every human being regardless of gender, ethnicity, or religion. We all deserve to live a life that we choose and according to the terms that are right for us. But for woman in these hills, where they are often the most consistent bread winner, empowerment is everything.
This is what it means to not allow social norms, rules, and other people’s expectations to govern you or your life. To me, these women stand taller than any portion of the Himalayan mountain range because of the values and priorities they have. Priorities centered on working hard for family and selflessly setting aside their needs for the village.